Mike, the tow truck driver

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Turns out, even a preacher man  has a bad day, now and then.

And on a day such as this, one preacher man found himself stranded, his car on the side of the highway, silent and useless as a paperweight.

He set off on foot, hoofed it to a friend’s house, and because it was past the hour that businesses operated, he left the car until morning.

Next day, a Sunday, he chose a tow service randomly from the yellow pages and set up a time for his car to be rescued.

Only it turns out, the choice was anything but random, and the car wasn’t the only thing about to be rescued.

The tow truck driver’s name was Mike.  And Mike was late. 

Not just five minutes late – an hour late.  When his truck finally came rumbling in, when it  hissed exhaustion and heaved to a stop, Mike fell out of the driver’s side door and rattled off five different excuses before his heavy boots hit the asphalt. 

The preacher man’s jaw was set; his Sunday clothes hung heavy with sweat from the blazing afternoon sun, but he replied with  as much grace as he could muster,and by the time the two men sat side-by-side in the cab of the tow truck, the tension had eased.

Mike spoke his apologies again, peppering them with even more excuses, and capped off his rant with an emphatic declaration that today had been “the worst day of his life.”

With this, the preacher man felt something break within him, felt the tide of strained courtesy ebb, and a wash of conviction urge him to push past pleasantries and speak truth.

“You haven’t had the worst day,” he told Mike, shifting in his seat to face him.  “You haven’t come close to having the worst day.”

And then  it was spilling from him,  from his mind where it had been seared: the story of that little boy, wearing a bow tie like his daddy, who he had helped to bury just yesterday.  He told of two young parents, bereft of  one who had been long-awaited, long rocked and soothed, long prayed over.  Of a gathering of people who had wept long and raised hands high, in a ceremony where pain and praise commingled, where tears fell hot and carried deep sorrow tinged with hope’s faintest glimmer. 

Mike didn’t stop him.  He listened, silent.  He kept his eyes on the road, his hands gripping the steering wheel so that his knuckles showed white.  He nodded now and then, and when the story was finished, he stammered out a few broken phrases, then gave up and turned to face his passenger.

“I want to know why,” he insisted, the words an accusation.  “Why does something like that happen to a little kid?”

His face was hard, but his voice cracked as he spoke.  He’d seen his share  of tragedy, he said.  Watched as a cousin was gunned down before his eyes.  Wept over the death of his own brother.  But each of these had carried reasons.  Each of these could be explained.

Now he looked to the preacher man, as if waiting for a bill to be paid.  An explanation he was owed.

“You’re asking the  wrong question, son,” came the response.

“It’s not the why  that’s important.  It’s the what.  What happened to that boy when his breath was gone?  What kept his mama’s knees from buckling when they put him in the ground?  What gives his daddy the strength to go to work every morning since?”

“I don’t know,” said Mike, shaking his head.  “I don’t know.”

But that’s not true, today.

Today, Mike does know – knows the answer to those questions, knows the Author of that little boy’s story, and of his own story, and of your story, too.

Because when Mike put that truck in park, he had tears in his eyes.  And when the preacher man put a hand on his shoulder, spoke God-words to him, those tears spilled down and  his soul, wrecked and battered though it was, was towed up. Was hauled in for repair.

And the cab of a tow truck was transformed — became  a sanctuary  of sorts.

The mire and muck and bug guts of the broad windshield might as well have been stained glass.

The dusty footprints and crumpled gum wrappers of the floorboard rested on holy ground.

And Mike, who showed up that day to do a job, left with a  purpose.

This is one of a series of true stories highlighting people who have been touched by the life of Bane Beasley.  If you or someone you know was affected by Bane’s story and would like to share it with Sonya and Drason, please contact us at: banebow@gmail.com.  


  1. Brian Miller

    nice. i love to hear these stories…

  2. Amanda Pilkinton

    I love that story. What a sweet ending to that situation! Praise be to the Almighty.
    Amanda Pilkinton

  3. Leslie

    And we do not grieve as those who have no hope. (I Thess 4:13)

    This story is masterfully wrought, Keli. You have been gifted, for such a time as this.

  4. Courtney

    the legancy of Bane,
    his earthly parents,
    His Heavenly Father…
    may it lead many a soul into glorious Eternity with Jesus.
    Oh how the angels and those of us waiting below praise Jesus for the salvation of Mike.
    What a story!
    Keli, thanks again for sharing it so well. You are using your gift to serve and save too! Love yougirl.
    Sonya and Dra- I love you guys with a love that hurts. And my prayer daily is that through precious Bane heaven gets fuller:)
    love, court

  5. jennynobleanderson

    Keli~I want to thank you for giving all of us a place to come together, to grieve, to remember, and to celebrate the memory of Bane. Sonya, Drason, and Livi humble all of us with their strength–and the stories you are so brilliantly helping them relay to us, are an invaluable gift. Thank you!

  6. Jeana

    pain and praise, all in the same moment..
    that speaks volumes
    i know this story will reach many.

  7. Courtney

    God has put you on my heart heavy the past 2 days. I have been reading a book and parts keep reminding me of you and Drason and the wilderness that you are in and yet the glory of God is shining thru and I could go on and on…
    So I have copied some of these parts of the book that I want to share with you and I am going to mail them or bring them to you.
    I love you both. I pray for you both.
    Love, Court

  8. Rachel

    I love to read how God is weaving beautiful redemption stories as a result of something so hard! Praise Him!

  9. Anonymous

    when i get to H E A V E N the first thing I'm going to do is bow and worship my LORD and Savior! (that will probably take a few years) lol The second thing I want to do is find my little sister Coycetta, whom I have never seen…She will probably be somewhere playing with Baney. I want to love on them and never stop… The next best thing I want to do is find Tow-Truck Mike and the 6 other souls that have found our LORD since August 10th! I want to celebrate and Glorify our Wonderful Lord….for HE is W O R T H Y!